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Six living principles of successful & happy people

There are many ways to be happy and successful, there is no magic formula. Instead happy and successful people live by some useful Principles and do them their own way...

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1) Take responsibility for themselves  Blaming external things for things that go wrong.  Give thought to what you CAN do rather than all the reasons you can’t 
2) Take actions that lead to long term success   Being concerned with short term gratification Whenever you are tempted by something for instant gratification (e.g chocolate, spending of the credit card, not doing exercise) Think ‘will I be glad I did this in X yrs time’. It will help you to make conscious choices. 
 3) They are not concerned with quick fixes Being obsessed by the next big diet, pill, instant romance, get rich quick idea etc   Use this motto ‘if it sounds too good to be true - it probably is.’ Develop your own internal wisdom to guide you in decision making.
 4) They have a positive and realistic outlook Being overly optimistic (always hoping for better but not doing anything about it) or pessimistic.   Identify you own bias for optimism or pessimism and challenge your own views. When something goes wrong, think about what you can do to work towards your dreams
 5) Know what’s within their control and what isn’t and act accordingly  Feeling at the behest of everyone else or trying control things they can’t  Be clear about what you can and can’t control. For example you can try to influence other people but you can’t make them do anything Learn to let go of that which you can’t control
 6) Are emotionally regulated - have the appropriate emotion for a given event  Being controlled by their emotions or ignoring them Meditation, NLP, yoga, breathing exercises, hypnosis, therapy, coaching, working on your over or under active emotional responses. 

Rather than trying to achieve them all, start with the one that you think will be most useful for you.


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 John McLachlan

Founder of Monkey Puzzle and an INLPTA NLP Master Trainer, John is also a Clinical Hypnotherapist and author of the award winning book Real Leaders for the Real World. His new book Time Mastery; Banish Time Management Forever is out now.

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